Trust Issues
Have you ever had issues with trust? I have. And am so mad about it. Well not really mad-mad. I just hate thinking how this person has the guts to spill everything I say.
To clarify things, I never mentioned that the information I provided was to be kept a secret. I just never realized that this person would spill the beans. Am I right when I say that one should know and realize if a certain information should be treated as a confidential one? Or am I just assuming that everybody, that person in particular, should posses common sense?
What am I referring to? Its a friend of mine whom I never imagined telling other people about my life story. Well actually my love life. I am always the quiet type. If asked a question, I will gladly give an honest reply. However, I was never the person who’d hang a placard around my neck nor stick a post-it on my forehead telling people about the real me, my life and my personal stuff unless I choose to or unless I’d consider you to be my bestest buddy.
This person went too far in telling someone about things that I don’t normally share to anyone. I would have told that same person had she asked me personally. But getting the information from this other person, as if they were talking behind my back? I hate that.
I will no longer be surprised if most of my colleagues will know the grand story of my life. I hate thinking that this person broke the invisible trust I bestowed. And the nerve of this person to accuse me of telling others about this person’s love interest. I don’t even give a damn about that. Why should I even spread it to other people?
I am now careful of what I’ll say and I’d be choosy with whom I’ll befriend from now on. It’s just sad knowing that it’s really hard finding someone whom you can really trust.
But there’s always what you call a “sweet revenge”, right? (Evil laugh) (Just kidding!)
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